Episode 7 – Redefining Fatherhood with Justin Black

Avery and Brian are joined by Justin Black, author, entrepreneur, and proud dad. Justin is the co-founder of Redefining Normal, along with his wife Alexis, where they share their story of “How Two Foster Kids Beat the Odds and Discovered Healing, Happiness and Love”.

In this impactful episode from father-son duo Brian and Avery Baker, we dive into the heart of what it truly means for fathers and sons—especially teenage sons—to build strong relationships, create meaningful connection, and define success not just in career but in connection. If you’re a dad of a teenager, feeling the tug of change in your son’s world or your own, this conversation is crafted for you.

Brian brings decades of leadership experience in business, while Avery offers the younger-generation perspective—together they openly explore how the father-son bond evolves when the son becomes a young man and the dad becomes more than a provider: a coach, a mentor, a friend. They show how fathers can move beyond traditional roles to become influential figures in their sons’ lives—leading not from authority alone, but from relationship, empathy, and trust.

In this episode you’ll uncover:

  • Why many dads sense their bond with their teenager son shifting, and what it takes to recognize the change before it becomes a gap.
  • How to pivot your focus from “being successful as a father” to “being successful in your relationship with your son”—because your relational success is as important as your professional success.
  • Practical strategies to engage your teenage son in authentic conversation: how to ask the right question, how to listen without judgement, how to hold space for his emerging identity.
  • Ways to redefine success in fatherhood: not just the wins you accumulate, but the connection you cultivate, the trust you build, the legacy you nurture.
  • How fathers can translate leadership skills from the boardroom into the living room, creating environments of growth, safety, and relational strength.

This is for dads who realize that while career accomplishments matter, the relationships you build with your son will outlast titles, paychecks, and accolades. It’s for fathers ready to embrace purposeful presence, digital-age challenges and the emotional journey of raising a teenager in a fast-changing world.

Key themes and keywords: father-son relationship, fathers and teenage sons, dad of teenager, rebuilding trust with son, fatherhood and success, meaningful conversations between dads and sons, father-son connection, leadership at home, legacy fathering, relationship building with your son.